{"id":229,"date":"2008-10-18T20:01:03","date_gmt":"2008-10-19T01:01:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thewannabegourmet.com\/?p=229"},"modified":"2008-10-18T20:01:03","modified_gmt":"2008-10-19T01:01:03","slug":"and-the-rain-beats-on-my-roof","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thewannabegourmet.com\/?p=229","title":{"rendered":"And the rain beats on my roof&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style='text-align:left' class='yasr-auto-insert-visitor'><\/div><p><a href=\"https:\/\/thewannabegourmet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/10\/coolclips_wb045786.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-230\" title=\"coolclips_wb045786\" src=\"https:\/\/thewannabegourmet.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/10\/coolclips_wb045786.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"147\" \/><\/a>A cold, damp, miserable day around the house. Still, It is beyond the middle of October, so it&#8217;s only fitting that Autumn starts to show its true colours.<\/p>\n<p>Time to break out the soup recipes. Time to break out\u00c2\u00a0flat breat. Time to break out the baked goods.<\/p>\n<p>Time to stop and give thanks for all that life has to give. Remember when I said that Thanksgiving wasn&#8217;t just limited to a day in October for Canadians and a day in November for Americans? This is what I meant. There should always be something that makes you stop, pause, reflect, smile, and be grateful every day. As a dear friend of mine gave me this quote the other day because she says it reminds her of me and the relationship I&#8217;m in: &#8220;I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I&#8217;m with you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>You see, in my mind, people put too much pressure on finding &#8220;the one&#8221; because they&#8217;re sure they won&#8217;t be &#8216;complete&#8217; without a certain someone to love. But no one can complete you. A person may <strong>complement<\/strong> who you are, but that&#8217;s as far as it can go. Take a moment and be thankful for being who you are. Love starts inside of you.<\/p>\n<p>(It&#8217;s also the only thing in life that you have more of, the more you give away.)<\/p>\n<div class=\"pvc_clear\"><\/div>\n<p id=\"pvc_stats_229\" class=\"pvc_stats all  \" data-element-id=\"229\" style=\"\"><i class=\"pvc-stats-icon medium\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><svg aria-hidden=\"true\" focusable=\"false\" data-prefix=\"far\" data-icon=\"chart-bar\" role=\"img\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-chart-bar fa-w-16 fa-2x\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M396.8 352h22.4c6.4 0 12.8-6.4 12.8-12.8V108.8c0-6.4-6.4-12.8-12.8-12.8h-22.4c-6.4 0-12.8 6.4-12.8 12.8v230.4c0 6.4 6.4 12.8 12.8 12.8zm-192 0h22.4c6.4 0 12.8-6.4 12.8-12.8V140.8c0-6.4-6.4-12.8-12.8-12.8h-22.4c-6.4 0-12.8 6.4-12.8 12.8v198.4c0 6.4 6.4 12.8 12.8 12.8zm96 0h22.4c6.4 0 12.8-6.4 12.8-12.8V204.8c0-6.4-6.4-12.8-12.8-12.8h-22.4c-6.4 0-12.8 6.4-12.8 12.8v134.4c0 6.4 6.4 12.8 12.8 12.8zM496 400H48V80c0-8.84-7.16-16-16-16H16C7.16 64 0 71.16 0 80v336c0 17.67 14.33 32 32 32h464c8.84 0 16-7.16 16-16v-16c0-8.84-7.16-16-16-16zm-387.2-48h22.4c6.4 0 12.8-6.4 12.8-12.8v-70.4c0-6.4-6.4-12.8-12.8-12.8h-22.4c-6.4 0-12.8 6.4-12.8 12.8v70.4c0 6.4 6.4 12.8 12.8 12.8z\" class=\"\"><\/path><\/svg><\/i> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" alt=\"Loading\" src=\"https:\/\/thewannabegourmet.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/page-views-count\/ajax-loader-2x.gif\" border=0 \/><\/p>\n<div class=\"pvc_clear\"><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A cold, damp, miserable day around the house. Still, It is beyond the middle of October, so it&#8217;s only fitting that Autumn starts to show its true colours. Time to break out the soup recipes. Time to break out\u00c2\u00a0flat breat. Time to break out the baked goods. 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